Choosing Engagement and Wedding Rings

Gold, Platinum, Palladium, Titanium and Tungsten Bands Compared

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Gold Wedding Ring - Photograph by Donna Vong Deng
Gold Wedding Ring - Photograph by Donna Vong Deng
Today's brides and grooms are faced with a huge range of choices when planning their wedding. This article looks at one of the more important - the rings.

When the parents of today’s brides and grooms were married, chances are their choice of rings was limited to the traditional yellow gold. The range of rings available is now very much wider.

Gold – Traditional Yellow and Fashionable White

The giving and receiving of gold rings has been a symbol of marriage for centuries, and yellow gold remains the traditional choice for engagements and weddings today. When buying gold, always look for the carat mark (k or kt) – the higher the value, the purer the metal. Pure gold (24k) is generally too soft for use in jewellery; more durable 9, 18 or 22 carat gold is more commonly used.

In recent years, yellow gold has been overtaken by white in popularity. White gold gets its colour from the addition of small amounts of palladium, and often a plating of the rare metal rhodium. This gives a fashionable white metal look without the expense of platinum, and makes white gold bands more hard-wearing than yellow. In an engagement ring, white gold complements diamonds beautifully.

Platinum and Palladium – White Metals for Large and More Limited Budgets

Platinum has become the high-fashion look for wedding bands, but is also very expensive. It has a heavier, more substantial feel than gold and, being harder, is much more scratch-resistant. This also makes platinum more difficult for jewellers to work with, which, together with its scarcity, accounts for the high cost. Most of the platinum used in jewellery-making is 95% pure.

Palladium is related to platinum, but is lighter in weight and cheaper. It is just as durable, however, and is an ideal alternative to platinum for the more budget-conscious couple.

Titanium and Tungsten – New Options for Modern Brides and Grooms

Titanium is a relative newcomer on the wedding ring scene. It more durable than gold, platinum and palladium but light in weight, with a silvery-grey surface. This metal is often used to make watch straps and cases, and is therefore a popular choice for men’s rings. Unlike the other wedding band metals, titanium jewellery can be produced in a range of beautiful, iridescent colours – a great choice for couples who like to stand out from the crowd.

Tungsten offers the ultimate in durability. It is the hardest of all metals used for jewellery, virtually indestructible and almost totally scratch-resistant. A tungsten wedding ring really does last a lifetime, and this idea of permanence is making it an increasingly popular option. The hard-wearing properties of tungsten may be especially attractive to couples who lead active, outdoor lives.

Titanium and tungsten are both so hard that once a ring has been made, it is impossible to resize – an important point to remember when buying rings produced from these metals.

Making it Easier to Choose the Rings

Wedding and engagement rings are the foremost symbols of a couple’s love and commitment to one another, so it is important to choose them wisely. As with all aspects of wedding planning, the sheer range of options can be overwhelming, but just a little forethought before visiting the jeweller should make the process easier.

Wendy A.M. Prosser, Photograph by Wendy A.M. Prosser

Wendy A.M. Prosser - Wendy A.M. Prosser is a freelance health and science writer and editor.

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Jul 21, 2009 1:06 PM
Guest :
This is a great article about choosing engagement and wedding rings! I've actually been doing a lot of research on the different metal types, and I'd like to add that because white gold isn't naturally white, it needs to be redipped to maintain its color. Platinum, on the other hand, is naturally white, so it won't need to be redipped and may actually be a more economical choice in the long run. I'd definitely recommend investing in platinum... it's a lot cheaper now than it's been in a long time and it will definitely stand the test of time!
Sep 14, 2009 3:45 AM
Guest :
I think tungsten is better option than titanium rings…If you want 2 make your wedding memorable than tungsten ring is best option to chose your wedding ring.. it is scratch resistant and thereby kept your memories for long time…

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cleon dann
Jan 25, 2010 10:41 PM
Guest :
The idea of permanence with tungsten meant a lot to us. We both got wedding bands (not matching) from Tungsten World. Its the perfect symbol of our marriage.
Jul 20, 2010 12:49 AM
Guest :
Every bride and groom should just create their own rules because it's your wedding!!! My fiance and I purchased our Engagment Rings from diamondsonweb.com. They are gorgeous and don't fall into any category. We saved a good amount too and are putting that toward some extras for the wedding!
Aug 3, 2010 2:29 PM
Guest :
With the amount of diamondsonweb.com Engagement Rings to choose from, picking the perfect ring was such a daunting task. I was able to pick out the ring that would fit my budget, but also be able to show my sweetheart how much I cared about her. The site gave me all the info with things like clarity, carat type, and cut, which allowed me to gain the understanding of how the cost of a ring is determined, and now feel confident on not only buying at engagement run, but any piece of jewelry I will buy my wife for the rest of my life with her.
Oct 11, 2010 5:03 AM
Guest :
Yes - you will pay much more for platinum now, but you do get a ring that can potentially last a lifetime. And palladium is the better choice over white gold if platinum is not an option due to price. Tungsten looks sleek and feels cool, so I understand why it is so popular.
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